Monday, February 22, 2016

The Other Half of October 7!

October 7--part 2--THE MOST IMPORTANT PART!  Got there in time for the last tea break, including Granny networking, and children's cultural performances.  Exhibition stalls were open in the park for sales, and wonderful treasures were bought and sold.  I arrived in my purple shirt and face bandage, and had time to do a bit of shopping.  Necklaces, earrings, bracelets, baskets and one wonderful beaded collar went into my shopping bag.  I now wish I had brought more treasures back with me--some of the Canadian grannies loaded up with colourful fabrics and woven carpets, etc. with them, but I was concerned about having to transport them all the way home, and through customs. 

Shopping on Last Day
Photo by Stella
 
The tall beautiful woman in orange, was the artist who created the beaded collar I purchased.  I will try to add a photo of it later.  The other people in this photo were women from her village.  There were many tender moments in the park this day, as we all knew our Gathering was coming to an end.  So much laughing, dancing, singing, talking and even weeping, were all coming to an end. 
 
It was time to go back to the Convention Hall  for the Closing Ceremony.  A prayer was said, and two national anthems were played.  And then the Ugandan Grandmothers Statement was presented.  This was the statement that kept our leaders up all the night before, writing from the notes of the rapporteurs at the workshops and other sessions--the distillation of all that had gone before in the two previous days--the jewel of the Gathering--Our reason for being there--The Voice of 500 Ugandan Grandmothers.  It was a very emotional moment.  It was read by Geraldine Powma  and translated by Jaja Jeda on behalf of us all.
 
Ugandan Grandmothers' Statement
We, 500 grandmothers from every region in Uganda, have come together for three days in Entebbe for the first ever National Grandmothers’ Gathering. We are celebrating our triumphs over the devastation that HIV and AIDS has wrought: over the painful losses of our loved ones, over stigma and discrimination, and over the threat to our very survival. Our love and labour has sown the seeds of new hope for our grandchildren, our families and our communities.
Our journey has been a long one, but our strength has been growing. We joined with other grandmothers in Toronto in 2006, breaking through silence and stigma. In Swaziland in 2010, we looked toward the future. Now, united in Uganda, we are claiming that future.
We have done our part. We care for the sick, we work the land, we hold our collective memory, and fueled by our love we raise the next generations, provide food, schooling, homes and security.
For far too long we have not been counted, we have not been valued, we have been made invisible. It is time for our contributions to be recognized and our rights to be protected.
Health care services must respond to the needs and realities of grandmothers and the children in their care, including: accessible grandmother-friendly HIV related services, specialized clinics and mobile care.
We must be protected from land grabbing and our property and inheritance rights guaranteed — not just on paper but in reality.
We demand an end to violence against grandmothers, whether it is domestic violence, elder abuse, or rape.
We are productive members of our society, and every government programme and policy should be designed with us in mind. But that is not enough, concrete action must be taken to ensure we can access them.
Our efforts to secure livelihoods for our families must be supported. Economic opportunities should be expanded for those of us still able to work, and social benefits extended to those who cannot. Protection from theft is essential, as well as greater access to credit and markets. We are raising generations of grandchildren ruptured by trauma, and require financial assistance and psychosocial support.
While we welcome the commitment to move the provision of social pensions from 15 to 40 districts, we urge our government to reach all of the grandmothers of our nation as soon as possible.
To our government, the private sector, civil society, media, UN agencies and members of the international community — the grandmothers of Uganda have a powerful vision for a future in which our families and communities are thriving, and have left the ravages of AIDS behind. With the support of our community-based organizations we have made huge strides, and we know a vibrant future is possible, but we cannot do it alone.
To our Canadian sisters in the Grandmothers to Grandmothers Campaign, you are an important part of our story, and we feel your solidarity as we build momentum.
We are 500 grandmothers here today, but we represent millions more. We are not young, but we are strong. We want the world to know how much we have achieved and how much we have overcome. We have breath to sing and energy to dance. We are moving forward! Join us!
 
This was the first International Gathering  There are now three statements in our literature:  The Toronto Statement in 2006 when the GMs were deeply in need of help to ease the suffering, the Manzini (Swasiland) Statement in 2010 turning the tide on HIV/AIDS and now the Uganda Statement when the GMs where there is now evidence that the tide is turning and GMs have found their voice.  Slowly things are changing--with school and home security, protection from land grabbing, violence, elder abuse and rape. 
 
There was more celebrating, singing and dancing, regional performances, and remarks by various leaders.  A lady by the name of Florence Butegwa spoke to the gathering.  She thanked the Canadians and Brits for travelleing the distance  and wished us safe passage back to our groups.  Some of the government representatives were "no-shows" but they were replaced amptly by others.  I'm afraid I was not in my best reporting condition because of my earlier accident.  My notes are very sketchy--I hope there will be  a video of this event that you can see some day.  A great deal of discussion about Human Rights.  " citizens are entitled to a full and meaningful life with dignity."  Grandmothers organizations are leaning how to apply policies already in place in their consititution--pensions for the elderly--micro grants--lists of essential medical supplies.  The government has an obligation.  GMs have rights, can make demands according to the constitution. 
 
Here is the video of Stephen’s full speech from the gathering :) Many of the Canadian Grannies even make an appearance!  Make sure you take the time to watch this--it is awesome!
  

Saturday, February 20, 2016

Final Day of Gathering--Tying it All Together

Wednesday, October 7, 8 a.m.--We were up early and ready to march!  All 500+ jajas given white shirts with purple trim and logos, and we gathered outside the hotel and were loaded into busses, to head for the centre of Entebbe.


Waiting for the busses
Some groups were carrying placards declaring their demands and wishes.


Photo by Oscar
There was a brass band leading us as we lined up for the March.  There were even two women from CUPE*--supporters of the SLF marching with us. There was a buzz of excitement, accompanied by looks of bewilderment from some.  We were off on a 3-kilometre hike, telling the world the wants and needs of Ugandan grandmothers and the millions of grandchildren in their care.  We set off at a brisk pace with heads held high.  Police and soldiers on motor cycles accompanied us along the road.  And of course, the local press was there, as well.   I was surrounded by jajas.  I was surprised how easy it was to keep up with them.  Adrenalin, I guess.


Photo by Oscar
Pride Cometh Before a . . .
 

 I was not prepared for what happened next!  About 2 km. into the march there was an unplanned event . . . I tripped on a curb as we were turning a corner, and fell and hit my face and knee on the rocky sidewalk!!
 
What follows was my own little adventure which no one else would be able to describe.  Helpful people tried to pick me up . . .  the St. John's Ambulance people arrived, bless them,  and I was loaded into their ambulance, and attendants attempted to mop me up and stop the bleeding as they took me to a clinic in a shopping mall.  There was another little jaja in the ambulance as well, suffering from a fall, and very quiet.   Dr. Betty ** accompanied us, as well as Graham from the SLF.  We waited for the young Ugandan emergency doctor on duty to take his diabetes medicine.  My nice white shirt was all bloody, and Graham tried to find me "something pretty" at the mall,  but all he could find was a black t-shirt with big white letters on it.  Dr. Betty found me a purple shirt with a pink collar--this was the uniform shirt worn by staff, so I had an immediate  promotion from Granny to Staff!  When the emergency doctor arrived, Dr. Betty assisted him with his instruments, and I heard her ask  him, "Don't you have a smaller needle?"
 
He replied,  "This is the only one I have."    I shuttered! 
 
She said "Don't do anything--I'll be right back."  She was gone about 10 minutes and came back with a smaller needle.  Bless her!
 
The doctor sewed up my face--it took 7 stitches.  And I had a big bandage on the side of my face and on my right knee.  Dr. Betty drove me back to the hotel, and Graham, most kindly took my hat away to wash the blood stains off it.  I felt I was wonderfully cared for, and told the Ugandan doctor before we left,  that if this had happened where I live in Canada, I would still be in the waiting room!  I am very grateful to all these people who were so concerned and took such great care of me.   I arrived back at the Gathering in time for lunch! 
 
We are only half way through the day, but I think I will end this chapter of the story, and post it, and continue later (but not much later) with the other half, which is probably the most important part of the whole Gathering. 
 
*  Canadian Union Public Employees 
 
**Dr. Betty Nsangi, Executive Director
    Reach Out Mbuya Parish HIV/AIDS Initiative